The Best Days of Your Life

" Being human is being a lot of things at the same time "

Matthias Schoenaerts

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As we are all now living in a new year, would you consider this as another chapter of your life? Are you just beginning to realize it now?  Or simply, a continuation of your life story?

The Present ..

Most of our experiences, resentments and regrets are not here today, at this very moment. They happened in the past.  It is not necessary to carry them in our present times. Unless you did not forgive and chose to walk away leaving the tangled strands behind, that past would always haunt you today.  

The present is today, live your life once a day.  Anywhere you are at your present moment, focus on that moment, whatever you're doing, being with your family or even away from home, be conscious of what your are doing today.  Any mistakes or arguments that has happened today, make sure to resolve as much as you can.  Tomorrow is another day. Your story today would not be the same tomorrow, things and events around us always change and we all know that.

Not Being Okay ..

Bad things happen to good people while the bad ones do have good times.  This is the irony of life.  Being a human being is a combination of all - good and bad.  Some people seem to have more bad days like..every single day, nothing good happened? At the same time, there are those who seem very happy, jolly and enthusiastic like...nothing bad ever happened ? 

Did you know that NOT being okay is OKAY?  Because bad days happen to everyone everyday at some point. The difference is how people deal with it.  Be patient and tough, someday this pain will be useful to you. Don't be afraid to fall apart, for a while.  It is a matter of being broken and become as a whole at the same time.  Grow and rebuild yourself once again.  Everything will soon be okay.

Cherish your life ..

Sometimes the hardest lesson to learn are the ones your spirit needs most.  Your past was never a mistake if you learned from it.  So take all the crazy experiences and lessons and place them in a box labeled "Thank You".  Sometimes you can't really feel happy without being hurt.  You can't sense the real meaning of victory unless you know what it means to fail.  A complete shattered experience in life would be your guide of strength in the long run.  

Hard times are often blessing in disguise.  Let go, let it flow and let life strengthen you.  You are alive today, and be thankful for another chance of being a beautiful human being.

Whatever points in life you want to achieve, you need to work for that goal today.  

wishing you all a good meaningful day!

Love,

Sofia Ann
Editor-in-Chief
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